Do yourself a favor and learn how to walk away. When a connection starts to fade, Learn how to let it go. When a person starts to mistreat you, learn how to move on.. to something and someone better. Don’t waste your energy trying to force something that isn’t meant to be.. Because the truth is.. for every one person who doesn’t value you there are tons more waiting to love you better.
Remember : You deserve the kind of love you do not have to chase, the kind of love that chooses you just as confidently as you choose it.
Trust me when I say you don’t deserve to be loved by someone who can only love you in halves, or by someone who does not see the value in being loved by you. Because at the end of the day you deserve someone who is sure of you. You deserve reciprocation.
But most importantly you deserve to be this person for yourself. When you know what you deserve and what you want on a foundational level, you are not afraid of losing love, because loss of love does not mean loss of self. You know you will always have yourself to come back home to, you know you will always be your own foundation, even on the days your heart hangs heavy in your chest. You know yourself, and you know what deserves your energy and your effort and the hope you hold within your bones. You respect your heart, you defend it, you do not break it down and give it away to those who do not know how to hold it, you do not shrink it or quiet it. You honor it, and you only choose to give it to those who do the same. That is where the most beautiful love thrives. That is what you deserve.